Marriage

Are You Taking In Life or Taken In By Life?

July 3, 2015

Here’s a question for you: are you taking in life or are you taken in by life? Everyone does a little of both, but you probably lean toward one more than the other. Though they sound similar, there’s a subtle difference between the two that can change the way you live. What’s the difference?

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What I’ve Learned About Marriage From Buying a House – Part 8

June 30, 2015

Well, we’re in our new house! Not everything is put away yet, but it’s livable and we can get both cars in the garage! So, I’ll close this series with one final lesson I’ve learned from this experience. What I’ve learned about marriage from buying a house is that it’s easy to let routine take over […]

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How to Change an Ordinary Life

June 24, 2015

While on vacation this week, I read a short blog post by Allison Vesterfelt entitled “The Difference Between an Ordinary Life and an Extraordinary One.” It was a great reminder that you don’t have to do extraordinary things to have an extraordinary life. It’s actually the little things that fuel an extraordinary life.  Since she […]

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What I’ve Learned About Marriage From Buying a House – Part 7

June 15, 2015

Finally! All our stuff was packed. It was all on a truck, or jammed into a car. So I went back into the house and took a final look around. I walked through the empty rooms that had been home for twenty years. The walls were dotted with nail holes and tattooed with marks here and there. […]

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What I’ve Learned About Marriage From Buying a House – Part 6

June 2, 2015

“You have to be patient.” I didn’t like hearing that advice as a child and I’m not a big fan of it as an adult. It’s difficult to be patient. If you don’t believe it, check out the video The Marshmallow Experiment. We’re one week away from moving into a new house. We still have […]

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Too Many Choices

May 28, 2015

Too many choices. Ever felt that way? You turn on your TV and there’s over 300 channels. You go to the grocery store and there are at least ten different types of anything you’re looking for. And if you go out to eat, there are more choices than you could possibly, get around to trying. We […]

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What I’ve Learned About Marriage From Buying a House – Part 5

May 26, 2015

“You’re not done yet.” This is what I’ve been telling myself lately. We’re very close to moving into a new home, and I’m sure some of you are tired of hearing this continuing saga. I’m with you. I’m tired of living it. Still, this experience keeps teaching me things about about marriage…especially this week.

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Scars

May 22, 2015

If you live long enough you’re going to get a few scars. They are the badges of memories, stories, and life. I have a scar on my left palm that I got as a small child when I ran around a corner and into someone riding a bicycle.

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What I’ve Learned About Marriage From Buying a House – Part 4

May 18, 2015

Let me just cut to the chase here. One of the things I’ve learned from this house buying experience is that if you want to get from the house you have to the house you want…it’s going to cost you. Certainly there’s the cost of the new mortgage, but there’s also expenses like fees, repairs […]

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What I’ve Learned About Marriage From Buying a House – Part 3

May 13, 2015

Have you ever had a total stranger hand you a list of things they believed needed to be changed about something really personal to you? That’s what a home inspection list is. I niavely thought it would be smooth sailing after the contract was signed. After all, we had a buyer who wanted the house enough to sign a […]

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