Marriage

The Great Pyramid of Marriage

September 30, 2014

Everyone goes into their wedding ceremony expecting to spend the rest of their life with the person standing next to them. They stand before the minister with heart pounding and knees knocking, believing their marriage will last forever…like the pyramids. But we know this is not always the case. Too many marriages crumble and fall […]

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Marital Climate Change

September 23, 2014

Is climate change affecting your marriage? These days, the subject of climate change is all over the media. Though there are differing opinions on the subject, one thing is for sure. Marital climate change is real.

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Are You Keeping Your Spouse as a Pet?

September 16, 2014

When it comes to marriage, there are some things you just don’t say…that is if you want a long happy life. Things like: “Gee honey, those jeans really do make you look fat.” “I told my dad there were some things you really could learn from him.” “I don’t think your cooking will be ever […]

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It Isn’t My Anniversary, Is It?

September 9, 2014

It’s the thing sitcoms are made of. Out of the blue, your spouse approaches you with a gift, a big hug, and an “I love you!” Hesitantly you say, Thank you,” all the while wondering, “It isn’t my anniversary, is it?” Even if this has never happened to you, I bet you can imagine it. […]

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Your Marriage Needs More Drive Through

September 2, 2014

When I say your marriage needs more drive through, I’m not saying your marriage needs more fast food take out orders. (Although, how cool would it be if you could improve your marriage with more fast food?) No, I’m talking about conversation. Now don’t roll your eyes and say, “Not another post that tells me I’m […]

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How Is Marriage Like Facebook, Makeup, and Toothpaste?

August 19, 2014

Here’s a marriage riddle for you. (As if marriage wasn’t perplexing enough.) How is marriage like Facebook, makeup, and toothpaste? And the answer is not that both spouses need better profiles, wife’s need to use more makeup, and husbands need to use more toothpaste. To find the answer, think about this. When people first start using Facebook they work hard […]

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What Can A Marriage Learn From A Suicide?

August 12, 2014

Last night I learned of the suicide of Robin Williams. I was shocked and saddened by the news. I’ve always been in awe of his ability to riff and improvise on the spot. It’s confusing when someone with so much to live for can’t see a reason to live. It’s jarring to think that someone could be so bright […]

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Oops!

August 7, 2014

I’ve just realized that I failed to post the last Normal Marriage Class audio from back in March of this year. So sorry to have left this one off, since it not only finishes a conversation about dealing with in-laws but also deals with the issue of sex in marriage.  So go back and listen […]

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Are You Just A Partner?

August 5, 2014

I hear the word “partner” used a lot these days.  People use the term when they’re married, but they also use the term when they’re just living together. I know the term “partner” is an attempt to be politically correct and inclusive, but to me the term “partner” seems a little demeaning. I want to […]

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Are You Taking Care Of Your Spouse?

July 29, 2014

I know it’s sort of a loaded question, but are you taking care of your spouse?  Before you get offended, think about it for a moment.  How would you answer that question?  What first comes to mind?

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