If You Want Your Spouse To Change…

Remember when when you were so in love with your spouse you couldn’t think of anything you wanted to change about them? Does that seem like a long time ago? WHY CAN’T WE SEE OUR DIFFERENCES EARLY ON? In premarital counseling, I try to get couples to see their differences and the problems those differences […]

Lesson From A Warrior

There are not many days that pass where I do not think about the life of David. When I was very young, I learned about David and Goliath; that even though I was small, my God was big. I read “A Tale of Three Kings” and wept over the comparison of my life to Saul, […]

If Your Spouse is Critical…

Does any of the following sound familiar? That’s not the right way to load the dishwasher. They won’t get clean that way. Why are you going this way? It takes longer and there are more stop lights. Why can’t you put things away when you’re done? That’s not the right way to discipline the kids. […]

If Your Spouse is Critical…

Does any of the following sound familiar? That’s not the right way to load the dishwasher. They won’t get clean that way. Why are you going this way? It takes longer and there are more stop lights. Why can’t you put things away when you’re done? That’s not the right way to discipline the kids. […]

Scatter Sunshine

Two months ago I was supposed to be in Scotland. I was supposed to have so many new memories, an album of new pictures on my phone, and inside jokes with my sister and grandparents who were going with me. But as you know, all of life came to a halt in the middle of […]

If You Feel Like Quitting…

Everyone feels like quitting sometimes. Stephen King is a prolific writer and probably one of the most well know and successful authors in modern history. Yet, he felt like quitting early on. I read that one night, his wife was taking out the trash and found three crumpled pages covered in cigarette ashes. Out of […]

If You Feel Like Quitting…

Everyone feels like quitting sometimes. Stephen King is a prolific writer and probably one of the most well know and successful authors in modern history. Yet, he felt like quitting early on. I read that one night, his wife was taking out the trash and found three crumpled pages covered in cigarette ashes. Out of […]

Take the Plunge

  My dad once told me, “The days are long, but the years are way too short.” It’s an interesting thing, isn’t it—the concept of time? It is always passing, always moving, yet never changing even though our perceptions of it alter. Perhaps like me, in this time of quarantine and social distancing you have […]